My age nowadays doesn’t know the meaning of the word, “relationship”. They thought that it is all about petting, kissing, sex, hugging, someone to text to in the middle of the night and someone to tag in your “in a relationship” status on Facebook.
My generation right now doesn’t know on what is the essence of it or the reason for its existence. Well basically, an intimate relationship is like a support system. 2 people bonded together to support each other in a lot of aspects of life. In career/business, education, family and the like. Though of course all of these things sound too serious, but that is what we call a real relationship.
We thought that it will be the end of the world if we won’t be able to talk to him/her in a day. We thought that chocolates and flowers will be the basis of the sincerity of a man to a girl. We thought that by having sex it will make the relationship much more stronger. We thought that the inserting of the penis into the vagina won’t make any babies at all.
Even though it sounds too judgmental to say that this generation is so fucked up. I am very sure that this period won’t be there for long. People grow. But what saddens me is the fact that this generation grow a little bit slower than the usual. Well the reasons is as complicated as love as well.
Above is the reasons why I don’t say I Love You, since we have to admit, it’s very hard nowadays to find a person who’ll say back I love You. A person who knows on what are the consequences that those three magical words will do. A person who’ll take full responsibility of the future when both of you will say I do.
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